The Thanksgiving Week

It’s Monday, whew! Last week was a big one, very long, too full. Hubbie’s Dad arrived on Wednesday, early afternoon. I had a migraine dual-session on Monday to Tuesday, and had a lot of work (cooking) to do and was hoping it would all work out. It did, but was very exhausting for me.

On Tuesday I made bread to use for my thanksgiving stuffing, white spelt and whole grain spelt loaves. I didn’t get anything else done. Hubby brought home the Turkeys that day too.

On Wednesday I made pie crusts and put together my scruptious version of the Nourishing Traditions Pumpkin recipe. I made 2 pies. They turned out wonderfully.

On Thursday I diced all the veggy stuff for my stuffing, and got that into butter in a large pan and cooked it until soft (Celery, Onion, Sage.) I mixed that then with raisins, chopped apple, chopped walnuts, and chicken stock — and then mixed it all into the cubed bread (which I made on Tuesday, cubed on Wednesday, and then dried out.)

I stuffed one turkey and into the oven it went for a few hours. The rest of the stuffing went into a casserole dish and was baked with foil over it for 30 or more minutes.

I also made homemade cranberry sauce. I saw a couple of shows on FoodTV this past month where different recipes were used for making something saucy with cranberries, so I made up my own way: I had about 2 cups of very nice cranberries (organic found at WholeFoods) and I put the juice of one red naval orange (organic) into the pan with the cranberries, and 1/4 cup of Rapadura, one chopped up apple, and zest from the orange. I added some water later. I let it cook and cook until it was the texture I wanted. It was very good. Zippy — tangy and sweet but tartier than sweet, the best sort of taste. (I had never made cranberry anything before, so this was a great success!)

I also made Creamed Peas with onions, I had little onions, not pearl, and ended up slicing them and putting them with the frozen peas in a pan as they cooked. I made a traditional white sauce and seasoned it nicely, put the peas/onions into a casserole and gently stirred in the white sauce, then put it into the oven for 20-30 minutes.

As well I made Glorified Cauliflower (a whole large head, cooked, then topped with cheddar cheese sauce, which is pretty much a traditional white sauce with cheese added); mashed potatoes and gravy.

I made my version of green bean casserole, utilizing a traditional white sauce with chicken flavoring (using chicken base, a paste) and Durkee fried onions with whole green beans, that were frozen then cooked, then added the sauce and onions to them in a casserole and baked, then put more onions on top at the end for 5 more minutes in the oven.

Lastly I had made dough for rolls (white spelt), and had V. help me make 12 cloverleaf rolls, and I twisted the remainder to make 12 more of a strange looking variety.

I think that’s all. It was a load of work. Hubby helped a lot cleaning up as I needed, and tending things when I asked so I could lay down a bit.

I made sweetened whip cream later on to top the pumpkin pie, which was a nice ending for Thanksgiving.

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On Friday Hubby and I went out alone, grandpa stayed with the children at home. We went to see Casino Royale, then got a few things for V’s birthday that we hadn’t gotten beforehand. We also went into a Mother Maternity store, and I found a couple of things, and Hubby paid, but the sales girl kept offering this and that info and packages of samples and signup for this and that … and it took a long time, and then diapers came up as a subject, so hubby started talking about our cloth diapering experiences and I got pulled into the conversation and so it took even longer to get out of there … I rested most of the rest of the day (I was worn out!)

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Saturday was V’s 8th birthday. We picked up the cake we’d ordered from a local bakery and got her a helium balloon (a translucent shaped butterfly, very pretty) and also a small boquet of roses (a very pretty orange colour) which was 10 roses, just right for an 8-year-old girl. I then rested/wrapped V’s presents.

We had decided to have spaghetti for dinner (V. request) so I made fresh Kamut pasta, and made my usual sauce with ground meat, onion, garlic, Cold Pressed Extra Virgin Olive Oil, organic canned tomatoes, and dried basil, oregano, parsley, sea salt. The pasta was a lot of work, but worth it.

I also made two skinny-ish french breads out of white spelt, water, sea salt, yeast.

We had present opening time, then dinner, and a bit later cake time.

I started feeling a migraine come on in the early-mid afternoon. We all went right then to Target so V. could get something with the money she got from grandpa. I took something for the migraine before we left, and that helped. Later though, during dinner, I had the pain come back. I took something again, but it didn’t help. I went to bed after cake time. I struggled with the pain for several hours. I then spent the next day, Sunday, in bed resting from all the exhausting activities and the migraine topping it off. I leisured in bed this morning then as well.

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I’m 10 1/2 weeks along in my pregnancy now. I’m just so tired still, and have hardly any energy. If I do feel some energy, it gets used up so very quickly. It’s just so nice to lay down and read and just lay down. Eventually I won’t be as tired, I sure hope!

It’s tiring to type, hence my seldom posting of late.

November 2006 Begins

It’s November now. Just a few weeks from my daughter’s B-Day. She’ll be Eight on the 25th. I sure hope I can do enough between Thanksgiving and her birthday to make it very special for her. As it is, she does connect Thanksgiving with her birthday, an inescapable connection. She was born the evening before Thanksgiving, and her birthday is just before, on, or just after, relatively, Thanksgiving Day each year.

This year her birthday is on Saturday, two days after Turkey Day. Perhaps a good thing for me. I’m 7 weeks pregnant now, and that week I’ll be 10 weeks. I’m truly hoping all is well with the baby and me, and that all will continue along well. In any case, a day off in-between holiday affairs is a necessary thing, and I hope I will have the wherewithall to do something good enough for each day. I don’t doubt that I will, with DH around to help. I just mostly need to trust the Lord about the baby and that I won’t be worrying about losing the baby these next weeks mostly (historical attachment to pregnancy #4 two-plus years ago.)

If all goes well, I could be in the midst of icky morning sickness then though. I am struggling with it starting now, and it has generally gone for me from around 7 weeks to about 12 weeks then slides down intensity massively somewhere in that 12th week.

I do think I’ll get a cake from a bakery for her, a very pretty floral princessy one. That’ll excite her.

I have to think out Thanksgiving as well, in the past I have made the turkey the day before, or so, and didn’t have the rush to get everything in the oven and time it all to work out, etc. I had the turkey cooled, then sliced, made the gravy ahead, and stored turkey slices in gravy, then warmed that up on Turkey Day.

It’s never a big bird slicing event at our Thankgiving Table. I’m more the slicer than is my DH, though he can do it, but I’m better at thin slices going the right way … and it is frustrating to me to see DH messing up, and me scolding him, ugh. So do-ahead birdie is a good idea any year, in my book.

In our family it’s just us, our immediate family, so however we make the details work out is fine. Expectations on my part are for a beautiful meal layed out, nice table (not overly done, mininimalistically beautiful) and everyone dressed up nicely (pie in the sky when it comes to my DH and his expectations though, Mr. Super Casual.)

Our kitchen is still not finished, it’s just temporary set-up still. The washer deal this past week was a notch against the kitchen for sure. November is the last month on the timeline I’d given my DH, at his request sort of, to get a new window in where the sink will be going, and doors in the other end of the kitchen. We have a window, and are getting sliding doors (a good deal from someone he knows at a window/door company in the SE.) soon as we can pick them up, then need to install them, and also build a landing and stairs outside for the sliding door (we want to move the deck over, it’s pulling away from the house, front piers are sinking, it was built when the house was built, so not by us. They used concrete feet to set the deck on, those little feet things that sit on top of the earth. Worthless, in my estimation. We need to put true footings in, and don’t like the deck where it is, and don’t know if we should save it, or scrap it partially, or scrap it entirely. It’s behind the house where the patio doors used to be, where we are putting the new sink area window. Those doors were removed a long time ago now, boarded up and I want that area finished off very soon –before really cold weather hits. Another winter with that is not my preference.)

I have ideas that I just can’t do anything with right now, being in my first tri-mester. Paint, woodwork, etc. DH is working a lot, out of town a lot lately, so it’s just “let it all slide” time, and I really want to get things going, so it’ll be nicer for the holidays, and easier for us too (the new window in means the plumbing can be done, easy enough, and start to get cabinets to put in at the corner and up to the sink base and then a dishwasher, and get those in, I want a good one, know I can’t get one that I would prefer, but we’ll get something better than the sort we used to have, I hope.)

November begins, countdown for the Holidays, and my own expectations for the kitchen getting done, or at least on the way faster!

6 Years

Today is my youngests birthday. He’s six today! He was my only “homebirth” baby, and born very quickly on a night when the Harvest Moon shown bright (actual “full” being a tad later than his actual birth, but I won’t squabble that since it was so VERY HUGE in 2000 that night and just the same the next rising.) I was in labor for sure only late in the night on Sept. 12th, and gave birth sometime around 1:57am -give or take — there was no one with a watch or clock available to note the time, the midwife hadn’t arrived yet. It was a great night, and all was well during and in the end.

My “A” is a small guy, he was my smallest baby, but not that small. Just smaller than my first two, which the eldest was 9lbs 1oz. He’s been the one who has stayed in “his age” for clothing, the other two were always way ahead of that sizing. He’s my sweety, just regular really, since I am comparing him to his siblings for size. He’s just regular. :)

He was really funny when opening his presents this afternoon. A couple or a few times he said, “What in the universe is THIS?” That sure made me chuckle.

We’re having his request for dinner tonight, steak. We weren’t going to do that, but in the end were able to fund it. So what happened earlier today when DH came home from the meat store with the steak and a few other things for the freezer this week? He was vacuum sealing “cubed steaks” to put into the freezer for another meal, and “A” said, “That’s what I said I wanted for my birthday dinner.”

What? Nah. You said “Steak” and you meant “Steak” and we are having “Steak.” He argued lightly a bit longer after that, but then said, “I only want rice with the steak.”

OK dude.

He is one that you must FORCE to eat any veggies lately. So on his birthday for his birthday dinner he can have “the night off” this year.

I have pictures from the days events that I’ll get onto FLICKR soon, and put some here as well. (not today, but in the next couple of days.)

Pre-birthday-ish stuff

My birthday is tomorrow … so this is the last day for me to write when in my 30′s :veryshocked:

I’ve had the ability to get a few “b-day presents” ahead of time, with me saying the other day “every day from now thru my birthday is my birthday” –meaning to “treat me nice” the whole time and “make it feel special” –so then DH decided to make it that something would be gotten for me every day, mostly — so let’s see:

  • Fry’s: a DVD: “The Sixth Sense” –I have never seen it, but based on “The Village” being a favorite of mine, I had thought of getting the other movies that M. N. S. has put out (I’m using initials for spelling reason, too you-know-what to look it up)
  • Best Buy: something for my Sansa e260 (Sandisk) — the Sandisk Sansa e200 series Travel Kit
  • Best Buy: using money from FIL for birthdays to DH and me, and a bit more donation from DH a new mp3 player just to have Audible Ready-ness ability. It’s a Sandisk Sansa m230, which is for the family to use with my Audible.com account only (and I am still wanting my Sansa e260 to do Audible …)

A nice little list. The Sansa’s don’t use bookmarking, and I would like it if they did, but as it is, it is nice to finally have a device to listen to Pride and Prejudice, or other Austen e-books, as well as other stuff I have, like: Prydain Chronicles; Chronicles of Naria; Eragon, Eldest (Inheritance Trilogy); Atlas Strugged; etc. an I have slim but great hope to have Audible Ready-ness added to a firmware upgrade for the e200′s.

Another thing I’ve had for my birthday countdown week is DH watching “Cold Mountain” with me last night. It’s the first time he’s seen it. I saw it so long ago, and it really affected me, and I have been trying to get DH to see it too. I did see it as a rental first, when DH was out of town. He later bought a used copy of it for me, but wouldn’t watch it. I MADE him under Her Majesty Declaration last night, and after the about 3 hours, he declared it a good movie, though through out it he struggled with it the length and that is understandable since we watched other movie first, “Must Love Dogs” which was OK, cute, but too long and drawn out and filled with stuff that could have been left on the cutting floor. We saw that as a rental, DH trying to get something for us to watch and NOT have to watch Cold Mountain. I declared the movie to be watch to BE C.M. but DH wouldn’t and only caved after I insisted for having gone through “Must Love Dogs”.

It’d be nice to have seen it only, Cold Mountain, but how it happened worked out OK.

I really enjoyed seeing the movie again, and cried sticky tears many times. It is such an emotionally engaging movie, it really is good to see a deep look at that time in The South. There is no glory in war, not really. It’s all man-made sophomoric stuff

[Wikipedia: Sophomore - Folk-etymologically, the word is said to mean "wise fool"; consequently sophomoric means "pretentious, bombastic, inflated in style or manner; immature, crude, superficial" (according to the Oxford English Dictionary). While it appears to be formed from Greek sophos, meaning "wise", and moros meaning "foolish", it is in truth from the word sophumer, an obsolete variant of sophism; ]

[Online Etymology Dictionary: sophomore
1688, "student in the second year of university study," lit. "arguer," altered from sophumer (1653, from sophume, archaic variant form of sophism), probably by influence of folk etymology derivation from Gk. sophos "wise" + moros "foolish, dull." Short form soph is attested from 1778. Sophomoric "characteristic of a sophomore" (regarded as self-assured and opinionated but crude and immature) is attested from 1837. ]

Happy Birthday Sis!

Happy Birthday to my sister Debbie!

July is a big birthday month, we have other relatives with July birthdays, and in my family growing up it was our dad on the 9th, sister on the 11th, me on the 18th, and then there was my dad’s brother on the 4th, then one sister married another July 4th-er, and I married a July 10th-er, and he has a niece in July and on and on it goes.

I can’t keep up with birthday cards and such, haven’t for years, but I will try and post a birthday post for the biggies, my closest relatives …

My dear sister Debbie is the eldest of us Siblings. She turned 9 just a week before I was born. I can’t imagine what that birthday must have been like for her, July in eastern PA, must have been hot and her momma was due anytime with a 5th baby. That was 40 years ago. Time sure does fly!

Happy Birthday again Debbie! May God bless you richly this coming year.

A Virtual Birthday Cake, just for you Debbie!

Happy Birthday Greetings

Happy Birthday to my Dh! He’s now two years older than me, for about a week in length. :wink:

July is about Fireworks, Baseball, etc. The All-Star Game is always right before, on, or after this day of DH’s birth, so … for you …


A Virtual Birthday Cake

Enjoy!

Happy St. Patty’s Day

I last wrote about the weather 15-day outlook for the last half of March 2006. As it goes thus far, it’s changed so that it’s not nearly as bad as “they” proposed that day I wrote about it all. :)

I’ve had a migraine since yesterday too. Right now it’s a lot better. It started out yesterday morning on the right side, Excedrin that I took seemed to knock it out, but some risidual symptoms floated on back later on, but nothing more than that for many hours, then the actual pain of migraine in the head came back, but on the left side, and no matter what I did has persisted there since late afternoon yesterday, until just in the last 1/2 an hour. Sigh.

That’s just how it goes. It’s not the worst sort of migraine I can get, just the drag-me-out sort that lasts and makes for an irritating day/night/day, or whatever combo it brings. It makes my other symptoms worse the longer it hangs out, but overall it’s not the worst sort still. It’s just severely aggravating at first, and drags out just like that, but then again I get used to it and it’s just the “gotta wait until it goes away, and I’ve been through this plenty of times before to know it’ll go away eventually, get worse or better before that, come back worse, but eventually I’ll be free of it again for a day or more, weeks or a month” or so.

DH is out and due back tonight. It’s nice when he’s here for a migraine, then I don’t have to see and feel icky things in the sink or fridge, can lie down for awhile if I need to try to rest (more easily than when he’s not here), and can help me with a back, shoulder, neck, head rubdown if he’s so inclined, which is my best defense against this very sort of migraine I have now. The ones that really have a ton more pain and nausea are fairly worthless for rubdowns since sensitivities are just so over the edge that nothing is bareable but to curl up in a ball, or sit in a hot shower and let water pour all over. Ah, those are few though, Thanks Be Unto God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. :)

Allergies continue to be ramped up, in the 10.2 High range usually this last week. I am affected, but also my 2 older children are as well.

Correlation: We all have had vaccinations. DH is affected too. Our youngest child has had no vaccinations and struggles the least-to-not-at-all to pollen-ish Spring/Fall allergy things so far. FWIW Along these lines eldest child had vac’s up to 4 years of age, and middle child up to 18 months. Between the two it’s the eldest that gets the worse allergies, has more sensitivities. I have massive sensitivities too. Is it built-in from birth? Somewhat, yes I think. But it does go to understanding that if we are more sensitive, hard wired to it, then couldn’t external things affect that sensitivity and increase it? Like injecting poisonous substances into our bloodstreams? I theory-ize that it is so. I was vacc’ed in my childhood and at 13 years of age we moved to a new state and they at a clinic forced me to get a whole series of vacs that I’d already had, since my mother couldn’t provide enough proof to satisfy them. Urghhhhhh…..

So about the day that it is, it’s St. Patrick’s Day. I am part Irish, but from what I know of my history it’s Protestant Irish Heritage. In any case I always liked this day, I used to wear shamrock dangly earrings in my teens and 20′s sometimes, but without wearing any green externally I always claimed a “not pinch-able” status since my eyes are green :) Others don’t see that always, but if they look closely they do see it. My eyes are deep (olive-ish) green with gold-ish tracings (patterned zig-zaggies all around the pupil in the green iris) sort of a “flower” look.

Happy St. Patricks’s Day to everyone! I love having Corned Beef anyday of the year, and especially on this day, but we don’t have any today. I wanted to get one when we were at Harry’s the other week, but they were out, and DH went there alone last time and forgot to check and see if they had any. I prefer a natural corned beef, not cured, so scrumptious! Oh, the agony of thinking of it, the taste, texture, smell, and knowing I don’t have the ability to do any of that. :(

President’s Day?

Today is “President’s Day” in the U.S. … a holiday I’ve always been loathe to “celebrate”. It’s not a “holiday” holiday, just a federal “no mail or banks” sort of day. You know, the things that are federal or nearly so, like schools of all sorts. ;)

Long we celebrated Washington’s birthday on Feb. 22 and I still set that day aside in my mind as his day, to remember specially who he was, not that it is important. It’s that he was a great man in the history of the U.S. and I refuse to dish his birthday into a “catch all” “President’s Day”. It’s a precise thing to recall struggles and victory via a leader, and that is Washington. Thus, his birthday ‘on the twenty-second of February’ each year is remembered, for what he represents, the past of a glorious experiment.

So there is no mail being delivered today, via the post office, it’ll come tomorrow, if nothing odd happens before then. The banks being closed affects me not. Shops aren’t closed. This is a big “sale” day for department stores! Not that I’m going to go shopping, I am not, maybe just groceries.

What is “President’s Day” supposed to signify then? It’s part of a behemoth federal something-or-other. An ethereal nod towards “our great past presidents” which is effectual towards nothing at all, except for a day to stay home for federal employees (not just them, but I use them as the big example.)

I think of this from a religious viewpoint, and I know that it’s my desire to only recall that “so and so was born on such and such date, and see what he did for this land we live in.” Otherly-wise an “All Out Presidents Day” smacks of the federal religion that exists but is usually pooh-poohed as if it doesn’t exist. I’m firmly in favor of no dichotomy in life … that life is religious, all things are either true religion or false religion, not that every little thing has God in it, or that there is no gray-area at all … this is a general stance of everything devised governmentally is a religion, and is it true and of God, or is it false and of itself?

Many things have come and gone since the inception of this Country. “Under God” is one of them. Hail to HIM! [not to 'the chief']