{"id":4833,"date":"2021-10-09T08:11:01","date_gmt":"2021-10-09T12:11:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hyperthinking.us\/weblog\/?page_id=4833"},"modified":"2025-06-01T06:36:20","modified_gmt":"2025-06-01T10:36:20","slug":"socionics","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/hyperthinking.us\/weblog\/socionics-2\/socionics\/","title":{"rendered":"Socionics and my family"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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ego type <\/strong><\/td> socionics type <\/strong><\/td> role <\/strong><\/td>quadra<\/strong><\/td><\/td> oldham type <\/strong><\/td><\/tr>
ESFp – SEE<\/td>Sensory-Ethical Extravert <\/td>The Politician <\/td>GAMMA<\/td><\/td> Mercurial<\/td><\/tr>
INTp – ILI<\/td>Intuitive-Logical Introvert<\/td>The Critic<\/td>GAMMA<\/td><\/td>Solitary<\/td><\/tr>
INTp – ILI<\/td>Intuitive-Logical Introvert <\/td> The Critic <\/td>GAMMA<\/td><\/td> Solitary<\/td><\/tr>
INFp – IEI<\/td>Intuitive-Ethical Introvert<\/td>The Lyricist<\/td>BETA<\/td><\/td>Dramatic<\/td><\/tr>
ESTp – SLE<\/td>Sensory-Logical Extravert<\/td>The Legionnaire<\/td>BETA<\/td><\/td>Self-Confident<\/td><\/tr>
ENTp – ILE<\/td>Intuitive-Logical Extravert<\/td>The Searcher<\/td>ALPHA<\/td><\/td>Inventive<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table>
Father, Mother, Child 1, Child 2, Child 3, Child 4. My own family is a Gamma\/Beta\/Alpha order, very Gamma overall.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

My Mother and Father<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ENFj – EIE<\/td>Ethical-Intuitive Extravert<\/td>The Mentor<\/td>BETA<\/td>Conscientious<\/td><\/td><\/tr>
ISFp – SEI<\/td>Sensory-Ethical Introvert<\/td>The Mediator<\/td>ALPHA<\/td>Artistic<\/td><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table>
My Mother, EIE, My Father SEI<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

My family had 5 children. Me the youngest. I know my type, but not my siblings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn’t (and still don’t) think our Zoo Dysfunctional family was good. Socionics shows why it would be hard to have good relationships<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My Dad had a psychological disorder personality for his type as well, ended up with dementia and death at 68 years of age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Supervisor Hell<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Dad: Supervisor of Mom<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom: Supervisoree from Dad; Supervisor of Me<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dad and Me: Super-Ego<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me: Supervisoree from Mom<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother came from a family a stern mother and a gentle father. She’s the eldest. EIE, then a sister that was the Golden Child, then her ESI brother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sister was little miss perfect life sister. Gracious and doted on anyone which won everyone’s favor. Even getting a South Carolinian Lady Drawl that never left her (the family was in Eastern Pennsylvania.) My mother being EIE, had that flawed feeling, just not good enough, and boy howdy did the sister aide in her sinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once my mother had her family started, I’m not sure why she didn’t flee home (to her parents) and stay there. Abuse is a sticky situation. Well, obviously she wanted to prove her worth, stick it out. Her sister had as much of the blame as my father.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Autism<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I have since writing this page come to know that I am Autistic (2024) and it comes to me genetically … through my mother, and her mother. Grandma was very rules oriented. I also have ADHD which mucks it all up so much. AuDHD. My Dad was probably ADHD too. All this can make total sense as to why my mother felt so flawed, her father and mother loved her, but the next child, the golden child was so lovely, smiles and graciousness naturally, nothing much wrong with her, she escaped the Autism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Media<\/em> Accent<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I’ve lived in so many places and have what I call, a media accent<\/em>. I can speak with affected accent at will, but not “naturally” like my Aunt did. I never heard a PA accent from her. I have a plain way of speaking, none of the regional affectations. Talking with an accent on purpose is fun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So my first 7 years were in Eastern PA, next 7 in Northern Central PA, then South Florida for 17, and now in NE GA longer than the previous three sections. My SEE hubby still sounds Michigander. (Married in 1992.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother’s sister … ESE absolutely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My Mothers Family Group<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
type<\/th>socionics<\/th>nickname<\/th>label<\/th>idea<\/th>quadra<\/th>relationship<\/th><\/tr><\/thead>
ISFj – ESI<\/td>Ethical-Intuitive Introvert<\/td>Dreiser<\/td>The Guardian<\/td>Devoted<\/td>GAMMA<\/td>My Grandma<\/td><\/tr>
infp? intp? isfp? <\/td><\/td><\/td><\/td><\/td><\/td>My Grandpa<\/td><\/tr>
ENFj – EIE<\/td>Ethical-Intuitive Extravert<\/td>Hamlet<\/td>The Artist<\/td>Conscientious<\/td>BETA<\/td>My Mother<\/td><\/tr>
ESFj – ESE<\/td>Ethical-Sensory Extravert<\/td>Hugo<\/td>The Enthusiast<\/td>Self-Sacrificing<\/td>ALPHA<\/td>My Aunt<\/td><\/tr>
ISFj – ESI<\/td>Ethical-Sensory Introvert<\/td> Dreiser <\/td>The Guardian<\/td>Devoted<\/td>GAMMA<\/td>My Uncle<\/td><\/tr>
<\/td><\/td><\/td><\/td><\/td><\/td><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody>
type<\/td>socionics<\/td>nickname<\/td>label<\/td>idea<\/td>quadra<\/td>relationship<\/td><\/tr><\/tfoot><\/table><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

ego type socionics type role quadra oldham type ESFp – SEE Sensory-Ethical Extravert The Politician GAMMA Mercurial INTp – ILI Intuitive-Logical Introvert The Critic GAMMA Solitary INTp – ILI Intuitive-Logical Introvert The Critic GAMMA Solitary INFp – IEI Intuitive-Ethical Introvert The Lyricist BETA Dramatic ESTp – SLE Sensory-Logical Extravert The Legionnaire BETA Self-Confident ENTp – […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":5604,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-4833","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":5604,"url":"https:\/\/hyperthinking.us\/weblog\/socionics-2\/","url_meta":{"origin":4833,"position":0},"title":"Socionics","author":"Maisy","date":"Monday, April 25, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"[list-child]","rel":"","context":"Similar post","block_context":{"text":"Similar post","link":""},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":5672,"url":"https:\/\/hyperthinking.us\/weblog\/socionics-2\/socionics-duality-of-see-ili\/","url_meta":{"origin":4833,"position":1},"title":"Socionics Duality of SEE-ILI","author":"Maisy","date":"Monday, May 2, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"SEE-ILI Duality of\u00a0SEE (ESFp, FR, Se-Fi)\u00a0and\u00a0ILI (INTp, TP, Ni-Te). 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