My family is stupid. My husband drinks too much and causes issues, and they won’t talk about it. So when I need to talk to them, they get defensive and anyhow, my husband gets touchy at me when he drinks and I HATE being poked, and it’s always my butt or my boobs and I HATE THAT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I try to be out of reach, but it’s not always possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Just don’t grab, surprise or touch me inappropriately. Always it’s been that and always for the last several years it’s like, your my wife I can do that. NO. That is not how it works dude.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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