I have this problem occasionally. My hubby goes on business trips and doesn’t always keep me up to date. He has a calendar online and doesn’t update it when he’s out. He doesn’t txt me or tweet or answer vmail. He’s been gone since Monday this week and did call me or call me back each day until Wednesday it slowed down, and Thursday he didn’t respond until later, and then he was in transit to a new location and never let me know he arrived or anything since the early afternoon phone call.<\/p>\n
I’ve dealt with him doing this kind of thing before and he just doesn’t realize how really important it is to keep me in the loop, I get very upset, rightly so when he doesn’t answer the phone hour after hour, after hour, after hour, and email isn’t replied to, txt msg’s go unreplied to …. I go nuts, and that’s the nicest way to put it. My body is starting to freak out and that is the point to all of this, I care, and because I care I can’t help thinking about all the bad things that could be happening.<\/p>\n
In the past he poo-poos that all right after he has been out-of-contact for a very long time and finally contacts me. He doesn’t care like I do, that is very obvious. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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