Category: General

  • Stress

    Anyone can take a stressor and turn it into a benign thing to not react to. When I do that in my home, it is me being ambivalent to my husband’s excessive attitude for drinking alcohol, then making it into a non-reaction thing. Ignore functioning. That’s how one enables another. When I mention the words…

  • Trauma

    Why is that I seem to have PTSD or CPTSD, rather, at this time of my life. I thought I could handle things and ended up making a few dumb choices which impact me to this day. I have all the hallmark signs but having an ILI personality I was able to lock the traumas…

  • The end

    Issues with heat, stress, etc. and of course, our A/C has broken. Over the course of the day, my guts have liquified. Living like this in August is intolerable. I think I’ll die

  • SEE-fi imploding and exploding

    SEE is a happy party animal, usually. Sometimes there is a reactor meltdown, often culminating with holidays and weekends. Add more fuel to the fire if it’s somebody else’s personal holiday, he is so selfish and horrible to live with. He (SEE-fi) will get worse as the years go on. (She SEE-fi version would too,…

  • Control the Outcome?

    What can you control? Only yourself. You can’t control others, you can’t control how their lives will go. You have your life to live. Just live your life. Understanding comes from within and without. That is how we have relationships and can stand to be around others. I can’t stand the idea of control. It’s…